Seven years ago on this day, I got introduced to my husband.
What a journey it’s been. We’ve experienced love, we’ve experienced pain, we’ve experienced joy and we’ve also experienced some fights. We’ve had days of intense butterflies in our bellies and days of intense “who/why-did-I-get-married?” There’s no one I’d rather walk this road with. May sound like a cliche, but I mean it.
I’ve enjoyed writing about this union as much as I’ve enjoyed being it is. One thing I’ve always been conscious of about sharing my relationship here and on other social platforms is the need to not over glamorize it.
Like every other union, we’ve had some challenges and probably are working through some. However, we’re still standing and I think we both share a commitment to want to see things work. I’m happy I have a partner who I can fight through things with.
I hope to keep experiencing the good things of relationship and marriage so I can keep sharing them and inspiring hope in some people. However, always keep in mind that there’s work in the background before some of these moments can be shared. This hard work includes having tough, very tough conversations, sometimes heated arguments but also honest and vulnerable feelings laid out.
It is hard work but it is fun work too. I’m glad I get to do this work with the most thoughtful and kind guy ever.
Happy Day 2,556, Beautiful Man. Here’s to many more days of smelling each other’s farts.